What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
That achieving orgasm would be easy with penetrative sex.
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Own your own pleasure and be vocal about your needs. Sexual compatibility is essential for a healthy relationship. Never apologize for being a sexual being.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Never stop embracing your sexual self and fulfilling your desires.
What are you scared of?
Never fully exploring my sexual desires.
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
Making my partner cum.
What's your favorite position?
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
BDSM, watching my partner masturbate, semen.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Sex with a woman and a threesome. I was in long term committed relationships for nearly 20 years.
What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
Drew Barrymore in Mad Love.
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Taking your pleasure into your own hand, either literally or figuratively. Let your partner know what you want and need. Know your body and if you need to give yourself pleasure, do it.