What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
That I would be having more of it as an adult.
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Don't waste so much time on your insecurities, they end up being the exact features that people are attracted to you for.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Stop being so excited just to be having sex that you sometimes forget to actually enjoy it.
What are you scared of?
I know I've had great sex, but I haven't experienced pleasure to the extremes that I know my body is capable of. I'm scared that it might never happen.
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Feeling desired, feeling free and welcome to express myself. Laughter. Eye contact.
What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
I feel pressure to live up to expectations men often arbitrarily put on me based on how I carry myself. I know they're "compliments," and I want to enjoy and embody them, but I end up worrying that maybe I won't be able to live up to what they're saying and I'll be a disappointment.
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
When entered slowly, accompanied by eye contact.
What's your favorite position?
If there's real passion and good rhythm, nothing beats missionary.
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
It doesn't happen often because I usually use condoms, but a man cumming in me. Obviously it feels incredible and warm, but even just the thought of it drives me wild- so submissive and powerful at the same time.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
As sad as this might sound, having the hot sex I've already had in my life but with someone I'm in love with, whom I know loves me. Where we already know each other's bodies and can just explore in lust and in love.
What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Powerful on top, very flexible, and a willingness to try almost anything.
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Knowing that you are entitled to the incredible feelings of sexual arousal and gratification that as humans we are a lucky species to have, and understand and indulge the fact that our minds are such an integral part of making our genitals feel so good.