The One Who's Into Breast Bondage

What's your name?
kat wilde

How old are you?
50

Where are you from?
northern california

What do you do for a living?
beauty biz

Gender?
female

Sexual Orientation?
heteroflexible

What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
That a perfect body made for perfect sex.

If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
To embrace yourself, flaws and all. Your body and mind are a beautiful, unique and amazing mix of heart and soul, chemistry and flesh. Be exuberant in your wants and desires but don't squander them on the unworthy. Choose wisely.

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If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Look kindly on your past, you may not have achieved it all but you achieved a lot. Embrace yourself, your days, your loved ones. Fear not what is to come.

What are you scared of?
Getting old and not having done all the things I wished to. Never finding my one true love. Growing old alone.

What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Trust. The magical chemistry you have with someone. Not the regular old chemistry but the really strong stuff. That chemistry! Communication. Humor.

What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
69.

If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
Single best moment?! How about moments, plural? I love the lead up, the tease, right before you actually become en flagrante'...

What's your favorite position?
Penetrated from behind while standing up.

What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
Breast bondage.

What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Wearing a strap-on. The right opportunity hasn't presented itself.

What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
In the first Rocky movie when Sylvester Stallone is standing all sweaty and bruised and broken in his apartment. I think it's the first time he and Adrienne kiss.

Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Blowjobs.

In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Getting yourself off totally for you, about you. With someone or not.


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