What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
That it was a bad thing. Sex I mean. That reading about it, watching it, or doing it was just not a good thing and should remain a secret. Now I'm older I realize that no way is it a bad thing, sex is the best, and one of the things that really connects us all together. (Also the knowledge, that yes, everyone's doing it!)
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Don't be scared of it. Don't worry about it. Also, don't worry about what you find sexually arousing, if you like the idea of handcuffs, then roll with it. Don't pretend it's not there.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Try it all. Go on, just give it a go. And don't hold back on a fantasy just because you're worried of what others will think. Sex and sexuality is a far more widely accepted thing nowadays, you must use that to your advantage.
What are you scared of?
I'm not scared of too much, apart from maybe being with someone who won't try anything new. Can't only do vanilla.
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Wearing lingerie, I feel sexier in it. I like being desired. I also like being in charge.
What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
Sometimes I don't like being in pain during sex. As in being the submissive. However, sometimes I do like it. I like being tied up, but it turns me on more to be the one in charge of the flogger.
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
When there's no controlling it, the passion is too much, you just have to have sex.
What's your favorite position?
On my front, he's behind, moving fast and biting my neck.
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
Being the dominant. I like having a guy tied up, telling him what he must do and what he must take. People would be especially surprised to know that I enjoy pegging.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
A sex party. And only because unfortunately I have not had the opportunity.
What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
May not have been the first, but it's definitely one I remember- an orgy scene in season two of True Blood. Also a lot of Secret Diary of a Call Girl.
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Probably being on top. Always get compliments when that's the position.
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Having as many orgasms as humanly possible.