The One Who Will Cuddle The Shit Out Of You

How old are you? 
32

Where are you from?
chicago, il, usa

What do you do for a living?
engineer

Gender?
f

Sexual Orientation?
bisexual/queer

What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
Premarital sex is wrong, sex isn't that important in a relationship.

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If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Explore more sexually.

If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Don't stop being who you are and enjoying life.

What are you scared of?
Being emotionally vulnerable.

What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Trusting the other person.

What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
Performing oral sex on men.

If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
Another person feeling how wet I am and touching me.

What's your favorite position?
Spoon sex.

What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
I really want to get into rope bondage.

What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Rope bondage-- haven't found a partner I feel safe exploring it with yet.

What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
Can't remember.

Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Cuddling.

In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
To assert my right to mutually satisfying sexual experiences.


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