The One Who Likes Pouring Coffee On Her Clit

What's your name?
blythe m.

How old are you? 
26

Where are you from?
chicago, il, usa

What do you do for a living?
professional dominatrix

Gender?
female

Sexual Orientation?
bisexual

What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
That weird or kinky sex was uncommon. And that I should expect to live a life of sexual compromise, to at least some extent, no matter the partner or situation.

If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Be yourself, and love yourself for it.

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If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Help others. Don't forget to give back.

What are you scared of?
Disappointing people. Hurting people. Not achieving fulfillment in my life.

What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Sexually? The other person expressing desire for me/wanting me.

What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
Threesomes.

If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
The moment the initiating person makes the first move. Whether it's a soft romantic kiss, a passionate dominant kiss, a bite, a shove up against a wall... That beginning single moment of emotional and hormonal surge.

What's your favorite position?
I hate this question, and I hate when men ask me this. I've never been asked this by a woman. That said, I enjoy being fucked from behind. But there are so many things I enjoy about so many positions.

What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
Sending nudes to men I don't know personally. Coffee (warm to lukewarm) poured on my clit.

What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Male/male/female. I haven't found the right combination of willing male partners yet. And I'm lazy and haven't tried that hard to make it happen. Haha!

What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
When Thumbelina and that fairy prince meet in the animated Thumbelina movie. He sees her and just instantly is into her and it's hot.

Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Being present, giving everything I've got to that person in that moment.

In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Let go.


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