What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
I didn't know that the thing about your husband/wife is that they are a person you get to have wild sexual adventures with.
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Love yourself. Nurture yourself. Learn to believe in yourself. Don't settle-- especially in relationships. Teach those boys how to touch your clit. Ask for oral and coach them.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Take good care of yourself. Live your values. Pay attention to what matters. Savor all the sweetness and bitterness in this short time on earth. Keep enjoying sensual and sexual pleasure as long as you can.
What are you scared of?
Not being able to get a job that I both enjoy and make enough money to provide me a relatively stress free life financially. Sexually: Fearless. (Ok all the sexually transmitted viruses scare me. I'da fucked more people and would invite more people into my bedroom were I not squicked out by and afraid of HPV/HSV1&2 -- less afraid of AIDS.)
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?Firm mattress. Nice cotton sheets. Silk filled comforter. Perfect room temp. Great lighting. And a partner who is obviously enjoying me and my body. But mostly, excellent (light fun honest) communication.
What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
Having my partner cum in my ass. I love all forms of fucking. I love cum. I like it everywhere. Except in my ass. I wish I did.
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
Most thrilling: when he first slides his cock inside my pussy. Best in theory: when he puts his mouth on my clit. Most pleasurable: my orgasm. Most satisfying: His orgasm. Happiest: His moans of pleasure.
What's your favorite position?
Me on top, looking in my partner’s eyes. It's pretty much the only way I cum. But I love vaginal sex from behind (all fours, bent over anything, pressed up against a wall, flat on my stomach). I love the feel of getting fucked. Any position. Ass or pussy. (Though pussy rules!)
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
Being dominated in any form. The feeling that I am my lover’s fuck toy.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Fucking a girl. Eating a girl's pussy while she eats mine so we can teach each other what we like. In the end, I really love cock and men and I've been so satisfied by that. I don't care enough about being with a girl to seek it out. Always knew I'd be open to it if I ever felt the right chemistry with a girl, but that's never happened.
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Enjoying the whole sensual experience and lavishing attention on my partner. Cock worship.
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Know yourself and unabashedly seek out those things that make you feel good. Fuck convention. Fuck taboo. Find your pleasure and share your pleasure with your partner.