What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
I didn't realize queerness and sexual fluidity existed for a long time, I was very confused trying to fit into a rigid definition of sexuality.
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
Kiss more. Kiss everyone. Don't fuck people who treat you poorly.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Embrace your aging body, you are still sexy, sexual and powerful.
What are you scared of?
Hatred and ignorance.
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Someone who is just as down for snuggling and silliness as they are for loud, rough, hard sex.
What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
Receiving anal sex. I love giving in anal play, I love eating and fingering and fucking but I do not enjoy taking it.
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
The look on someone's face when you're wholly wrapped in each other and riding ecstasy.
What's your favorite position?
Receiving cunnilingus as a total pillow princess.
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
Being called filthy things. I embrace sexuality and abhor sex-shaming but the right person whispering that you're a dirty slut while they fuck you can be hot as hell.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
I've never tried really pushing my pain barriers, or somebody else's. I just haven't found the right person yet who shared the inclination that I felt comfortable with.
What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
I don't remember any specific scenes, but I tell you I remember the rush I first felt seeing two girls kiss. I didn't understand what the butterflies and tingling and flushing meant.
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Being adaptable- I get off on a lot of things so depending on what my partner is into I can enjoy dominating and teasing and punishing them or being a submissive little kitten.
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
Really becoming attuned with your own body, desires and fantasies.