What was the biggest misconception you had about sex/sexuality when you were younger?
I used to think being anything but straight was incredibly rare.
If you could give any piece of advice to your younger self what would it be?
You don't have to explain yourself to others. You can be gay and date someone of the opposite gender and no one needs any explanation. You can be you without others needing to understand.
If you could give any piece of advice to your future older self what would it be?
Don't doubt yourself. You know who you are and that person is capable of anything.
What are you scared of?
Currently I am in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex and I know that I can pass for straight. I'm scared that if everyone in my life knew that I wasn't straight things would be different.
What makes you the most comfortable in bed?
Knowing my partner always wants me to be comfortable and is genuinely interested in me makes me very comfortable in bed.
What is something you feel pressured to enjoy but don't actually?
I think the only thing I have no interest in is anal or anything involving my butt or his butt, my partner is also not interested in that so there is no pressure for me to enjoy it.
If forced to choose, what's the single best moment of sex?
When you and your partner get into the perfect rhythm and nothing matters but the connection between you two.
What's your favorite position?
Cowgirl because it's the only way I can finish, but I also love doggy style.
What's something people would be surprised to hear turns you on?
I like hair grabbing, not exactly pulling, but just my partner having a handful of my hair.
What's something on your sexual wish list you haven't tried yet, and why haven't you tried it?
Right now I think I'd say various types of role play, and we haven't tried because we don't have the time right now.
What's the first movie scene that ever turned you on?
I wish I knew the name but when I was a lot younger my parents were watching a movie and I just happened to walk by the T.V. when a scene was on where two hot girls were hardly dressed and touching each other according to what a guy over a radio said. Sounds a bit like a porno but it was a comedy movie and that was the only part I saw.
Time to give yourself a pat on the back: what are you best at in bed?
Being vocal. I couldn't be quiet if I wanted to and everyone I've been with says the volume and variety of sounds I make during sex make things much more enjoyable.
In honor of our motto, what does "claim your pleasure" mean to you?
For me claiming my pleasure is telling my partner when I want to be intimate and the acting on it. As well, during sex once I'm in a place or a rhythm that feels good to me continuing what I want to do to climax is definitely claiming my pleasure.